If you want to link to me (and I'm more than happy to do a link exchange, just send me an e-mail):
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Some more of my favorites:
Aarin Fantasy - A great to place to find bl/yaoi anime, fiction, and generally indulge in being a fangirl
SmackJeeves - Has tons and tons of great BL comics, some of which I've linked to above.